You are right, the ends appear to behave differently.
I did what you did and connected two connectors together, now
I have the bend in the connector at each end that I wanted

Thanks for taking the time to post a reply, vojo.
But now I have another problem. I intend to use screentips
to hold information about the patch panel, switch etc. that the
connector refers to.
I can do a screentip for one connector, but this information is not
displayed in the second connector

You can see the point where the two "slave" ends connect up, indicated
by the

in the centre of the attached screenshot.
I tried to group the connectors together, to get them to "share" the screentip,
but this did not work. Anyone have this problem before?
Thanks
Barney